Thing, Fling, or Dating?

I was feeling a bit guilty about being so frank with Ruby regarding her relationship...or rather thing, with Kerry; though as her roommate and more importantly her friend it is my job to protect her. She is going to be hurt, I know this. She and Kerry decided to plan a jaunt out to Fire Island together over Memorial Day weekend. I saw the hope for an exclusive lover in Ruby's eyes and heard the denial of a beautiful disaster in her voice as she described their plans.

"Well," I began, "You know how I feel Ruby. She is going to hurt you. Even if you do progress into something more than this thing that you have now, are you really comfortable with being an experiment?"

"I love her, Frankie, and I must risk my heart because right now this entire situation is destroying my sanity," reasoned Ruby.

"That makes sense, I see your point. Though please be careful...remember what happened with Ellen and Anne Heche." I warned.

"Yes, of course," Ruby answered,"Ellen wound up with Portia di Rossi, that hot piece of ass."

I laughed,"Again, I see your point! Well, good luck pursuing your possible almost lover or a hot piece of ass who will soothe your hurting heart. You know that I am always going to support you no matter the outcome. I am off to Brooklyn for a Costco run for this weekend's camping trip."

"Oh, that's right, you're going camping with your old crazy Staten Island crew. Wild on the Delaware River!! You better be a bit cautious as well, Mother Hen. Isn't Tater going to be there?", asked Ruby.

"HA! Tater. I haven't seen him in ages. Yes, he will be there, though he has a girlfriend. You know that I am not down with OPP.", I reminded Ruby.

Tater was a former...thing of mine. Just as Kerry was this indescribable thing to Ruby, it had been about eight years ago since Tater, or Paul, and I dated. Poor Paul inherited the nickname Tater when, as a chubby kid our friends decided that he resembled a tater tot. Yes, cruel then, though eventually Paul outgrew the excess weight and the cruel moniker, to become quite the cutie. He worked hard to win me over and did eventually, though bad timing kept us from a substantial relationship. Through the years, we would make out if we wound up at the same party...or camping trip...

"Riiiiiiiight. There is no chance that he is single? He is a player, though would make a great weekend partner for exploration within the forest," Ruby winked. "As long as those memories don't allow old feelings to overcome your fun factor."

I pondered Ruby's point for a moment and concluded that I was jumping to conclusions.

My phone rang and I saw that Sasha was calling. "What's up Momma?", I answered.

"Frankie! You sound the same! ARE YOU READY FOR CAMP KITTATINNY?!?!?!?", asked an excited familiar man's voice.

"Ta--Paul," I corrected myself , "What are you..."

"Oh I am meeting you at Costco with Sasha and Derek", replied my former flame. "What is a true Kittatinny reunion camping trip without a pre-party Costco run?"

I thought for moment, looking at Ruby, who was performing an excited, my friend is hooking up this weekend dance, as I spoke, "Oh Paul, great minds think alike. You're a man after my own heart. I am leaving now, see you in a bit."

"Great Babe," he said before hanging up.

"Yes," said Ruby, "it never hurts to have a bit of help pitching a tent." --Frankie